Chronically Dating

Chronically Dating

I had left behind the dating world for nearly 7 years and I thought I was leaving it behind permanently. However, after my marital separation and divorce I found myself once again dating. I was suddenly thrust back into situations calling for me to decide when, what,...
Standing Together

Standing Together

Today was a physically taxing day. I woke up not feeling my best and it worsened as the day drew on. I ended leaving work early due to stomach pain and bloating. As soon as I returned home, I crawled into bed to rest. I was worried about feeling better in a few...
Don’t Shut Me Down

Don’t Shut Me Down

I was going through another bout of depression. Not anything particularly new for me. I’ve battled depression since childhood when my chronic illness started. I’ve completed years of psychotherapy and resume counseling when needed. Although the triggers of...
From a Child’s View

From a Child’s View

“Is there any part of your body that hurts that would keep you from playing tag?” my niece asked, peering up at me with her big brown eyes full of hope that this time I could play with her and her sister. “I can play” I answered as a smile...
Defending Invisible Illness

Defending Invisible Illness

“You don’t have anything wrong with you. You have no issue walking.” he said with dismissing disdain for what I had shared as I tried to empathize with him. My word alone that I have a chronic illness wasn’t enough for another person with...